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  1. Being African American & LGBTQ: An Introduction
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  3. 11 Black Men Share Stories About Encountering Racism Within The Gay Community

Being African American & LGBTQ: An Introduction

As I slowly came to terms with my sexuality, I started going to gay bars and clubs. I have always admired gay men who are confident in themselves. I definitely find a lot of black men, like myself, to be more reserved about their sexuality, in comparison to gay, white males.

I question where this confidence stems from: Does it come from within?

Negative Stereotypes Drive Opposition to Gay Rights

From family support? Or from the media? The media openly embraces white homosexuals and their lifestyles unlike homosexuality in the black community. I wonder as a young boy, if I would have seen a black, gay man on screen that I could relate to, if this would have led me down a path of acceptance, rather than rejecting my true self.

It sounds ridiculous, but because I longed to have a network and support system I played up to this.

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I was tired of being an outsider and I craved validation. In a way, I even felt proud of myself because I was finally seeking approval from other gay men, rather than trying to fool people into believing I was straight.

No one should have to act in a way that is unnatural — regardless of race or sexuality. We need to stop pigeonholing — not all gay men are effeminate, not all black men are masculine. There are no rules. This website uses cookies to improve user experience. To find out how to change your settings, go to our Cookie Policy.


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Click here to search help topics. While the Civil Rights Movement resulted in monumental legal changes for a country just years removed from slavery, African Americans continue to experience bias, discrimination and prejudice at all levels of society. The situation is even more severe for LGBTQ African Americans, who live at the intersection of racism, homophobia and transphobia and face a number of critical issues, including:.

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11 Black Men Share Stories About Encountering Racism Within The Gay Community

The situation is even more severe for LGBTQ African Americans, who live at the intersection of racism, homophobia and transphobia and face a number of critical issues, including: Black survivors were also twice as likely to experience any physical violence, twice as likely to experience discrimination and 1. According to the National Transgender Discrimination Survey , 38 percent of Black transgender people who interacted with police reported harassment; 14 percent reported physical assault from police and 6 percent reported sexual assault. Such high rates of revictimization by police is a major barrier to dealing with anti-transgender violence.